Ruined Orgasm

A “ruined orgasm” is a form of orgasm play that occurs when sexual stimulation is removed from the penis or clit at the point of no return, resulting in a significantly weaker and less satisfactory orgasm. In a D/s dynamic, ruining an orgasm can be a form of control. However, while "ruined" orgasm sounds unpleasant, that isn't necessarily the end result. Because there was no full release, one is able to orgasm again shortly after. This can be repeated again and again increasing the satisfaction of the orgasms progressively. Ruined orgasm also avoids most oversensitivity, so the stimulation does not lose its appeal (like what can happen with normal orgasm and post-orgasm torture.)