Kink Activities
Role Reversal
Short Definition
In BDSM, role reversal refers to a situation in which a the submissive takes control of the Dominant and maintains that control for the remaining duration of a sexual encounter or kink play session. This should have been negotiated before the activity began but the exact timing of the reversal is often left unspecified to heighten the tension and surprise. Role reversal is typically not a permanent identity change; it's a temporary switch of control. While it usually happens for a single encounter or session, partners may also negotiate a longer reversal period.
Detailed Explanation
In BDSM, role reversal refers to a situation in which a the submissive takes control of the Dominant and maintains that control for the remaining duration of a sexual encounter or kink play session. This should have been negotiated before the activity began but the exact timing of the reversal is often left unspecified to heighten the tension and surprise. Role reversal is typically not a permanent identity change; it's a temporary switch of control. While it usually happens for a single encounter or session, partners may also negotiate a longer reversal period.
In porn, this scenario is often called domination loss.
More broadly, role reversal can refer to the flipping of gender roles. This can mean acting contrary to what's expected based on traditional gender norms. It can also extend into a kink. For example, FemDom toys with role reversal because the more traditional view is that men are dominant and control subsmissive women. FinDom is another similar example, where men are traditionally expected to maintain financial control, but are instead controlled by a female FinDom. Even strap-on play or pegging plays on role reversal when a woman takes on the role of penetrating a man.
Source
This entry is based on an article from the FetLife Kinktionary. The content has been translated and adapted for the Kinky Circle Wiki.