Gaping

In the context of BDSM, gaping refers to the intentional stretching of the anus or vagina to the point where it remains visibly open for a time. Gaping involves activities like anal or vaginal sex, fisting, or the use of large sex toys. ### Why Are People Into It? Gaping is often done for the visual effect, but people may also enjoy the sensation of openness. Gaping can also serve as a a display of submission, with the submissive partner offering their body in a particularly exposed and vulnerable state. ### Safety & Consent Because gaping involves significant stretching of an orifice, it requires careful attention to safety and consent. The use of lube is recommended, as is clear and ongoing communication between partners to ensure the stretch happens in a gradual and safe way.