Romantic Orientations
Aromantic
Short Definition
Aromantic is a romantic orientation that describes someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction to others. This means that an aromantic person doesn't typically feel the desire for romantic relationships.
Detailed Explanation
Aromantic is a romantic orientation that describes someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction to others. This means that an aromantic person doesn't typically feel the desire for romantic relationships.
Aromanticism, like many orientations, exists on a spectrum. Some people might identify as grayromantic (experiencing rare romantic attraction) or demiromantic (experiencing romantic attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond).
Being aromantic is just one way of experiencing the world, and it's important to celebrate the diversity of human experiences. Aromantic individuals bring unique perspectives to their relationships and communities.
Although it is reasonably common for people who identify as aromantic (or "aro") to identify as asexual (or "ace") as well, the term aromantic only refers to the level of romantic interest a person generally experiences. It is not related to who a person may be attracted to, or any other types of connection. An aromantic individual can have and desire strong emotional connections, close friendships, sexual desire, sexual aversion or mixture of any of these at any time, and may be attracted to different people in different ways.
### Traits of Aromantic People
- Lack of Romantic Attraction: Aromantic individuals typically experience low, infrequent or no romantic attraction, meaning they have low, infrequent or no desire to be in a romantic relationship or to engage in romantic activities.
- Emotional Connections: While they might not seek romantic relationships, aromantic people can still form deep and meaningful emotional connections with others, such as friendships, queerplatonic relationships, and familial bonds or may do none of these.
- Spectrum and Variation: Aromanticism exists on a spectrum. Some aromantic individuals might still experience occasional or weak romantic attractions, while others do not at all.
- Aromantic Pride: Many aromantic people embrace their identity and celebrate it within the LGBTQIA+ community. They might participate in aromantic pride events and connect with others who share similar experiences. The aromantic community provides a space for individuals to share their experiences, find support, and celebrate their identities. There are various online forums, groups, and events where aromantic people can connect.
There are several misconceptions about aromanticism, such as the idea that aromantic individuals are incapable of love or intimacy. In reality, they can and do form strong and meaningful connections of any type, but generally these are not romantic.
### Resources and Further Reading
If you're interested in learning more or connecting with the aromantic community, here are some resources:
- AUREA): The "Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy" is a organization dedicated to the aro community's visibility in society and now a officially registered nonprofit!
- Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN): Includes threads dedicated to aromanticism.
- Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week: An annual event that raises awareness and celebrates aromantic identities.
- Books and Articles: There are many books, articles, and personal blogs written by aromantic individuals sharing their experiences and perspectives.
Source
This entry is based on an article from the FetLife Kinktionary. The content has been translated and adapted for the Kinky Circle Wiki.