Roles
Alpha
Short Definition
An Alpha is a Dominant role in BDSM and is considered strong, dominant, confident, charming, charismatic and other traditionally masculine traits. Often used by the kink community in primal play and play fighting. While Alphas are traditionally male, the role is increasingly being considered genderless.
Detailed Explanation
An Alpha is a Dominant role in BDSM and is considered strong, dominant, confident, charming, charismatic and other traditionally masculine traits. Often used by the kink community in primal play and play fighting. While Alphas are traditionally male, the role is increasingly being considered genderless.
Originating in pseudoscientific terms for men derived from the designation for alpha and beta animals in ethology. Classically it has been used as a way to indicate "the most dominant" person in a particular group.
### Controversy
The idea of "Alpha" is derived from a masculine cultural background which some people may consider problematic. There has been documentation that disproves the myth of the Alpha Male (second source). The term is also sometimes associated with manosphere groups, in particular incel groups.
Source
This entry is based on an article from the FetLife Kinktionary. The content has been translated and adapted for the Kinky Circle Wiki.